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Delayed-onset demisexuality after sexual relationship is established - Can the nominator explain what they mean with this freeform? Could this be reworded to be more clear?

Teenage realisations - This is a bit too vague, can it be updated to something like "Teenage Aspec Realizations"?

Date: 2025-09-12 12:27 pm (UTC)
From: (Anonymous)
not the nominator of it, but "delayed-onset demisexuality after sexual relationship is established" makes me think of a story where A is sleeping with B, their relationship is fine, but A hasn't previously experienced sexual attraction. A may think they are ace, or A may think that when they think a person is good looking and they are willing to have sex that that is what sexual attraction is, but either way, they begin to experience a more intense level of attraction and come to decide they are demisexual, as this attraction only began when the sexual relationship was already established. So a situation where A starts to feel aroused or horny when they see B or think about B, when that didn't used to happen before their relationship got going.

Date: 2025-09-12 08:49 pm (UTC)
From: (Anonymous)
I'm the nominator and this is basically completely spot-on. (This prompt is based on my own experience of being demi, which I figured out 4 months into our sexual relationship being established.)

Date: 2025-09-13 02:19 pm (UTC)
From: (Anonymous)
Works for me!

Date: 2025-09-12 01:26 pm (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] gavilan
Not the nominator, but that's how I'd interpret it too.

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